I think it is important to remember that Christ selected the disciples - including Paul - knowing how different they were. Jesus could have chosen or made them all alike! And, in Revelation, Christ speaks to the churches, each one having a different personality. This demonstrates to me that He accepts those types of differences.
Some people relate closely to Paul; others, to Peter; others, to James, etc. As for me, I wish to be more like John.
Me too, A-G! ...the beloved apostle.