[nickcarraway]

Well, I hope you can get advice for something to do which is compatible to being a husband and father. Any advice that would hurt that role is not worthy advice.

[Poohbah]

I got sound advice from a deacon later.

I do think that a married clergy need not be the end of the church--it has not been the end of the Orthodox Church, and it hasn't hurt the permanent deaconate.

I support allowing the ordination of married men--but not the marriage of ordained men.