Real men find women who are attracted to them for their interests. Men who define themselves to a woman's interests have lost touch with themselves, they are chamelions.
IMO, this explaines why Honda Civics with fart mufflers replaced the 67 Camaro as THE highschool car of choice...just about the same time being called
F@G stopped being an insult.
You are definitely on to something. Especially the first paragraph.