Take the rules of this forum for example! It is expressly noted that no profanity,gutteral language,racial slurs or any un-savory language is allowed, yet the moderators always seem to allow deviation of these establised rules. I have called and made reference on numerous occasions about this growing problem in our nation and socially astute people are in high awareness of the slackness in applying and regulating what gets out on this forum.
This growing national experiential phenomen grows ever more present in the liberated environment of modern America, so the moderators on forums where this violates the established rules must be quick to delete the objectional material before it gets posted otherwise they themselves become part of the problem by allowing it to linger. Your challenge is still before you and unfortunately always will be!
The drovers of the American west cattle drives in the 19th century would heartily agree with you if anyone should refer to them as "cowboys".
"Talk low, talk slow, and don't say too much."
John Wayne