So, you propose a time limit on atrocities to your kin?
Tell me, do you remember the people jumping out of the towers as they burned, after throwing their babies out the window?
Well, what do you figure is a reasonable time to forget that and grow up...10 years, 50 years, 88 years?....so, in 91 years you wish your offspring to forgive the perps, especially though they and their governments have not denounced the previous actions, and wish to grow up and move on??
Just asking
Anyone involved in the atrocity is more than a hundred years old. It's doubtful any of them are alive. There is plenty today to be worried about rather than holding grudges from before you were born. It's like the Ireland and Great Britain, the Palestinians and the Israelis, Serbs and Kosovian arabs. Blood lust that moves from generation to generation. Definitely not very Christian.