[perez24]

I'm glad you clarified that because I thought it was just me. My wife and I chose who would get the kids in the event of our death...though I would hardly characterize my wife and I as sane.+

[EllaMinnow]

It's not just you!

Seriously, I don't think many kids available for adoption are orphans, either.
Every orphan I've known has been adopted by family, and never was in the "system."