Been there, done that! I was a "nice guy" up until about 10-15 years ago! NOW, I FORCE women to compete for ME! All the "social justification" tricks from women I have in my shirt pocket. All the stupid pickup lines I had back then I have in my socks.
Those women who happen to have "the chip", I make them pull my finger, it just takes up to an hour to realize that they made a fool of themselves!
Those gals who spent their whole lives having gutlessg men tend to their every need never had a man who told them "NO" with the class I have. But I just tease them in the meantime for kicks, anyway.
You see, sarasmom, there were a lot of spoiled, self-centered women in CA to practice off of 10-15 years ago which I had absolutely no respect for anyway. So why not use them for stupid mental games? It's like shooting rabbits. But I have had monogamous, sensual relationships with real LADIES who I GREATLY respected, and may get married to one soon.
I want CLASS in a lady, along with the nice touch only a real WOMAN has.
A lot of the guys on this thread are sidetracked.
Hugs,
Bob