In my experience, it's always been the fag-bashing types that turn out to be secretly gay themselves, years later...
As a heterosexual man, I never have to worry what anyone says to me, because I know it's WOMEN that turn me on. I've always been a little suspicious of guys that get too defensive when a gay man is around them...
Big difference between gay guy around them, and gay guys grabbing at them and pulling of their clothes.... Sorry quite comfortable in my masculinity, enough so that if 5 guys came up playing with my hair and trying to take off my clothes, that I'm not going to sit their like a pansy and see where they are going to finally stop.