The Confederate rebels whom you revere were not brothers-in-arms of U. S. soldiersYour showing your ignorance of history again. Look up the relationships between George W. Randolph, Pickens, Lee, Johnston, Grant, President Tyler, Turner Ashby, Armistead, Custer, Hancock, Longstreet, etc.
Many Confederate rebels were indeed members of the U.S. military before the war, but they stopped being brothers-in-arms to U. S. soldiers when they started killing them.