Family law attorneys are like building contractors who pray for tornados.
Like it or not, attorneys are the means by which we exercise our legal rights. No one likes divorce, but we've all seen too many cases where a full-time mom gets dumped with multiple kids and no means of suport. How can she care for her kids on her own? She needs an attorney to exercise her rights.
Worse still are cases of domestic abuse. Battered spouses more than anyone need the help of an attorney.
Your dislike of lawyers has blinded you to the fact that they do sometimes help those in need.