[Hildy]

Then that's your choice. I can't imagine anybody saying that, though. I think it's dishonest. You would want to put your family through all that? Really? I wouldn't. I choose life for the living.

[Hildy]

I meant the response above to be to you.

[oceanperch]

We again have a difference of opinion on living.

[ClancyJ]

I choose life for the living

Who says you get to choose life or death for others? You can only choose life or death for yourself. You are not God. There is a big difference in someone being brain dead and someone who is awake, shows recognition of a mother.

In addition - the husband has never provided funds for rehabilitation. He does not have the right to judge her on her status without medical attention to improve that status.