[justshe]

If you really want to pick apart some questions, the REASON for feeling bad, would also have to be investigated. There could be a NUMBER of reasons, including, poor performance, embarrassment about certain participatory sexual acts, self-image (as in poor self-image re: their body), etc. The list could go on and on. "Guilt" can have a myriad of roots that may actually not have a basis in the intital decision.

[Cathryn Crawford]

"Guilt" can have a myriad of roots that may actually not have a basis in the intital decision.

You're absolutely right, and, on another note - if a woman has consensual sex with, say, her boyfriend's brother, or has a one-night stand, isn't guilt actually normal? Guilt doesn't indicate rape.