[Cathryn Crawford]

Yes, we have to find some level of balance between a woman being taken advantage of, and a woman taking responsibility for her actions.

[najida]

I see a pendelum swing to the extreme here. In my life, I know of four rapes....and one attempted. Only one was ever reported.

I still believe it is a very under-reported crime.

I also agree with your article. To allow "gee, I was pressured" to be rape weakens the case for those that truly were.

As for men whining for sex....
Youngun's, get used to it...just keep a lot of cheese around to go with the whine. ;)

[Utilizer]

Try this one -it is worth the read, and it might better explain some things to you:

'Honey, You Repel Me': Advice For Couples in a Sexless Marriage
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/912234/posts