[Windcatcher]

Agreed. It was this last line that pointed me in that direction:

"...but I also want a man who is rich good looking and sexy"

Right off the bat, this screams "shallow" to me. I saw no indication of anything otherwise, so I figure there's no point in expecting anything more from this person.

[honeygrl]

You are definitely right about the way that person comes across. All women aren't like that though. In fact, I really don't believe most women are like that. You just hear a lot more from the men who have experienced the bad ones than you do from men who are with (or have been with) the good ones. Many of them avoid these sorts of threads like the plague because it makes them mad to see other men talking the way many here do.