It is sad what has happened to women your age and a little younger these days.
They will seek out a man just like you and seem like they have the same love and commitment.
I haven't figured out what happens, but they seem to be self-destructive. After finding the "perfect" mate years later some seem to not appreciate the love and commitment and then find the same kind of man and do it again. Because deep inside they really do want a good man like you.
If they stay self-absorbed and vain they will destroy the next relationship.
Perhaps some learn when they see they are very unhappy with the superficial attention of several men, but others become flirtatiously promiscuous and get unhappier and unhappier while at the same time maintaining an undetectable ( to most casual observers and the men they get interested in them) facade.
Those that don't recoginize wake-up calls end up giving up everything seeming held dear to them for their own vain (fleeting) pleasures.
It seems men are always seen as the ones that won't commit. And that would say after sex "that was fantastic I am not used to it being that good" and then make it clear they want someone else next.
The tables have turned and although I don't believe men should have sex just for sex's sake, women taking on the same trait is sad indeed. Anyone male or female who operates on that level does not have much self-respect.
Be careful.
Some women do become single because a man has treated them badly or does not love them anymore. But some leave relationships or marriages (or are forced out) because of their own selfish actions.
If you are lucky enough to find a woman who believes you are the man she was made for it may be a good idea to see how she treated the last man in her life. (No matter how sincere she seems if she starts treating you like that there's yer wake-up-call :>)
Some seem to go into the MAC-attack phase and never come out of it...