There is no person who speaks the language of inclusion and acceptance to gays who actually cares about them. Those who care will repeatedly tell them of the dire health risks and the early onset of death. In post 32 I said "a friend won't always tell you what you want to hear." A true friend is someone who cares for you enough to say things nobody else will say, even though it may hurt.
Perhaps ClancyJ could read some of the links here:
Homosexual Agenda Index of Links
It's time to quit the language of inclusion and instead use the language of consequences. Tough love is real love.