[justshutupandtakeit]

I have been struggling with this dilemna for some time now and have been sorely tempted to leave my local Presbyterian church. If I were to do so it would be in deep trouble financially since my efforts add about 20-25% of its income.

It has served me well personnally having married me, baptisized my sons and buried my precious wife so the emotional tie is very strong. But I grieve over the denomination's national leadership.

[Zack Nguyen]

That is a tough thing for you and your family. Are your ministers Bible-believing conservatives? ARe they concerned about the denomination? Do they have a financial stake in the denomination?

[anniegetyourgun]

I understand your dilemna since several families left at the same time we did - taking 4 deacons and 3 elders in the process. Since it is the leadership that typically tithes (and significantly offers), it was a significant financial hit as well. It was also there that my children were baptized and where we were married. Tough decision, to be sure. I'll send up a prayer for yours.