could find themselves facing a choice between the civil law and the demands of their church. Nope. It is not "the demands of their church". It is the law from God.
Resisting sin is not painless and is not deviod of earthly consequences. Believers have to make a choice, obey God or follow Satan. That choice can have severe earthly consequences. Those that love and serve the Lord will make the right choice, enduring the earthly consequences, because they know true freedom and frue happiess come only from God.
A man's gotta make a living. If the fags want to marry and the U.S. constitution(or some liberal Supreme Court interpretation) says it's OK then who are you to stop it? You quitting your job is going to turn the moral sewer into God's kingdom? Let's say God gave you 5 kids to support? You are completely financially responsible because your wife can't work. Are you going to quit your job and put the welfare of your children at risk because two fags want to marry? Let them marry. Just remember to teach your kids the difference between good and evil. Don't try to save the world. That's not our job. Save your own soul. That's hard enough.