[honeygrl]

I wish more families would realize that. My hubby has a brother with kids from a previous marraige that are just hell on wheels. I tried 3-4 times to talk them into sending them to visit us for a few months one at a time, but they won't do it. And they are royally screwing the kids up. When they get too much for them to handle, they send them to gramma as punishment (which is NOT fair to the gramma at all) and she gets a 2wks hellish visit with them and it makes them hate her and the parents more.

[Just another Joe]

When they get too much for them to handle

Not an option. When they're too much for me to handle either they, or me, will be in jail.