This is exactly the problem. They claim to have reconciled their faith and sexuality. The translation is "We have re-written scripture to conform to our world view and now cast ourselves as victims of religious zealots who dont know the scripture!
They can try all they wish but they can never live in the sin of homosexuality and say that its OK by God. They must admit it is sin. They know this so the only real goal is to get enough people willing to believe as they want them to believe.
No one likes to be told they are sinful or do bad things. I have committed many a sin and will assuradly do so again, but I will never look over at God and say "I demand that this sin I commit NOT be called a sin!"