Why does a balding, chubby grump like myself have no problem finding plenty of lovely ladies? What am I doing so wrong as to be out of the mainstream and not miserable?
Hmmmmmm...because you aren't an " empty suit " ( you have lots of varied interests and I assume that you can and do talk about them well ),you probably know HOW to treat a woman with respect, and you aren't some " little boy " in an adult males's body, who sees women as a sex object and/or "
THE ENEMY ". That makes all the difference in the world !
I can only go by what so many males here write to threads such as this one, and what my daughter and her friends said, when they were single. Far too many young men today, never mastered the art of dating. They don't know how to woo. Heck, they haven't any social graces at all and less interests. EMPTY SUITS ; if they even wear a suit.