The present fashion of merlots is almost funny--I used to try them and the general consensus of my "instructors" was that merlots were so bland and dreary that they were fit only to cut the harsher wines in a blend.
Never did develop a palate--and my preferred wines are some local "folk" wines that are invariably new, bright, and never spent much, if any, time in wood. If I serve wine with a meal, I try to have someone who likes it pick it out.
But I do like a nice old scotch/irish/bourbon. What tastes like mildewed wood in a cabernet (the varietal I've learned to hate), seems to taste very nice in a scotch. Maybe the increased alcohol % kills off some of the mildew fungus...(g)
But if somebody leaves you a good cellar in their will, call me! :-D