[kstewskis]

..and the rest of us honest (single) women wonder why on earth some men don't want to get married...or remarry.

With garbage like that out there, who could blame them?

Stupid thing is, marraige isn't to "build one's self esteem." That's pathetic.

Too many wrong factors happen in a marraige....one of them is unrealistic expectations of their partner.

Personally, I think too many women (like she describes, not the honest ones) are too in love and preoccupied with more of the idea of marraige, instead of the reality of it.

Then they go and screw it up for the rest of us, ruining another good man.

Just my humble O.

[Pukin Dog]

With garbage like that out there, who could blame them?

You got that right.

I am single, financially secure for life, and I looked better in my Navy flight suit than George Bush did.

But you could not get me to walk down the aisle with a woman at gunpoint.

No way, Jose.

[Darnright]

>Too many wrong factors happen in a marraige....one of them is unrealistic expectations of their partner.

Personally, I think too many women (like she describes, not the honest ones) are too in love and preoccupied with more of the idea of marraige, instead of the reality of it.<

Well said. Marriage is a 2 way street. Perhaps these women would find their marriage "more fulfilling" if they spent more time catering to their husbands' needs instead of their own. They might find their guy would reciprocate tenfold.

[connectthedots]

Then they go and screw it up for the rest of us, ruining another good man.

A slutty woman does not ruin a good man, she only helps expose the two of them for what they both are.

I am one 'good man' who will not have sex until I am remarried to a passionate Christian woman who desires to have an active and enthusiastic sex life as a part of marriage. In the two years since my ex left me (not for another man), I have been very pleasantly surprised at the number of middle-aged Christian women who really desire and look forward to having very passionate, and uninhibited sex with a future husband.

[man of Yosemite]

Many women marry some guy who they think is going to be a good provider, but ignore the aggressive and insensitive nature of his character which is enabling him to climb effortlessly over his fellow man. Clinging to the occasional flatteries which are tossed their way, they remain with the jerk for years to their own humiliation. Then, if they do decide to have an affair, it's with another creep who doesn't give a rat's behind about somebody's marriage. During all of this display, many a good man just sits by and watches, being ignored as a prospect because he is unwilling to play this game. It's a true phenomenan, that women mainly desire another women's man. Then we get to hear them complain about how rotten men are, which leads me to disrespect them even more. I've seen some good women out there, but how few they are.