[kstewskis]

My friend, when the leaves have fallen and the golden glow has faded, it helps to have a steadfast compnion to help with the raking

...if you're so lucky as to be that blessed.

Sounds as if you are. That's awesome.

[BRL]

if you're so lucky as to be that blessed

It is not just luck. My observation has been that really really happy marriages have two selfless people in it. It is not luck to choose to be selfless yourself. It takes a lot of work, and is not fun all the time. I congratulate people for their success, I do not consider them lucky. (Even if I have not found the keys to success myself)