In your opinion, am I counter to God's plan because I am not married, have no children, and not actively seeking either?
I'm not being facetious, I'm truly curious
Here is a good site to read.
http://www.broadcaster.org.uk/section2/transcript/marriage1.htm There is nothing wrong with not being married as long as you are not letting your youthful lusts get away with you.
The bible says if you can not control yourself then you should get married. I will search for the verse for you. I am in total brain lock right now...(my wife keeps asking me to get her some ice cream.)