[Jorge]

On the other hand, you're right about homosexuals being easy to spot, but if you really notice, it isn't always because they fit the stereotype, although they often do. It is kinda hard to describe actually, but I can usually spot them a mile away. It seems to me more like a certain "quality" that emanates from them rather than any specific behavior.

I don't mean this to sound like an accusation...but I have heard that only gays are good at spotting other gays in the general population.

I know sometimes I can spot them, but many times I can't.
I've been totally surprised many times to find out a person is really gay.
For example one time I caught a guy peeking into the stalls in our company men's room....a guy who was married and his wife just had a baby. I was shocked.

[sweetliberty]

Well, I am definitely NOT a lesbian. I like men. And I wouldn't go so far as to say that I ALWAYS spot them, but I often do. That's not to say that I haven't had an occasional surprise or occasionally wondered about certain people.