It's called Don't Pursue. Also, in this circumstance, one may wait 8 days and the issue goes away....
Also, such behavior ie not taping someone in sex act and then keeping copies is actionable as far as I'm concerned.
There's no doubt that would be actionable under the federal anti-sodomy statute; I'm uncertain that it would be actionable under any other (or whether it was acted upon under any other). If the federal anti-sodomy statute is struck down (which seems probable, but not assured) then it's not actionable under that.
Its called harrassment.