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Forced patriotism invites the unpatriot - Kathleen Parker
townhall ^ | July 6, 2003 | Kathleen Parker

Posted on 07/06/2003 5:25:43 AM PDT by TLBSHOW

Forced patriotism invites the unpatriot

It's that time of year when we try to quantify our patriotism. Flags are out, barbecue pits fired up, and Gallup has the numbers.

Americans are hand-over-heart patriotic. Seventy percent responded to a June Gallup poll that they are "extremely proud" to be American and another 20 percent are "very proud." That just leaves 10 percent who are less than proud, and John Ashcroft will not be releasing their names.

I'd like to state for the record that I'm not just "extremely proud" to be an American, I'm "extremely delighted" for so many reasons that I hardly know where to begin, but here goes.

My No. 1 reason: In the U.S. of A., patriotism is (BEG ITAL) voluntary. Right?

Well, yes, it is, though recent events have made patriotism seem something less so. As in, I'm a little worried that I don't have my flag out yet, and the neighbors may be wondering whether I'm sufficiently patriotic. I went to the doctor's office yesterday and was handed a car flag on my way out the door. I saluted the nurse.

Pressure or bonhomie? (BEG ITAL) Sir, bonhomie, (BEG ITAL) sir!

I'm all for patriotism as defined above. It's good to love your country and most of us do. It would be fair to say that I was raised to be a patriot. In my childhood home, we kids practically had to recite the Pledge to receive nourishment. John Philip Sousa was our background music. We had military drills, and I knew how to fold a flag before I could fold a T-shirt. So went my serially weird Cold War childhood in the extremely patriotic hands of my WWII pilot/father.

So, yes, I grew up loving my country. Except, I confess, it wasn't sincere. I'm sorry. I faked patriotism so I wouldn't be banished to the bomb shelter to subsist on canned beans and powdered milk. Yes, the therapy is coming along nicely.

While I probably have a higher tolerance than some for patriotic fervor, given my background, I also have a commensurately low tolerance for devotion-on-demand. When patriotism becomes expected, forced or in some notable cases, ENforced -as in the firing of columnists whose opinions rub publishers the wrong way -it begins to feel creepy.

These days when I walk down flag-lined streets, my mind wanders to the Body Snatchers, which I admit is a short trip no matter what the circumstances. I imagine passersby sizing me up. Hmmmm, no flag lapel pin, nary a thread of red, white `n blue, no decal. Instinctively, I begin whistling "My Country `Tis of Thee."

Yes, I'm kidding. Sort of. Still, in the wake of Sept. 11, one can't help noticing that patriotism feels like a command performance. Maybe this is just a variation on familiarity breeding contempt, but when KP starts getting wiggy about Old Glory and ye ol' traditional values, it's possible that something's slightly a-kilter.

On the other hand, democracy is self-correcting and this, too, shall probably pass without undue damage to Our Way of Life. We're living in strange times, dodging mines in unfamiliar terrain, trying to figure out how to protect freedom and stay safe. It's a dicey path that demands vigilance and sometimes we slip.

In the immediate wake of the terrorist attacks, we were a tad exuberant in our patriotic zeal. I was (BEG ITAL) hunting flags to hang. In that initial emotional flush, we also were guilty of oversensitivity. If Bill Maher had made his statement (terrorists aren't cowards, we are) today, "Politically Incorrect" probably would still be on the air. Emotional distance allows for cooler heads.

The problem we face is that once patriotism drapes itself in the raiment of public virtue, it becomes something else, something oppressive, something decidedly un-American. It ain't freedom when it's forced. And hanging out a flag, though it may spiff up the neighborhood, isn't an act of patriotism unless it's voluntary.


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KEYWORDS: forced; patriotism; unpatriot
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1 posted on 07/06/2003 5:25:44 AM PDT by TLBSHOW
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To: TLBSHOW
and ain't it grand to live where we are free to choose! We don't have to have our kids tatooed at birth and the state doesn't give us a flag and say now hang this! Nor do we worry about the knock at the door telling us our religion isn't the right one, or our car is the wrong color! For this I am truly thankful and I gladly volunteer to fly, post, or wear anything that lets people know how proud I am!!
2 posted on 07/06/2003 5:38:34 AM PDT by D. Miles
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To: TLBSHOW
Kathleen Parker is extremely proud to be an idiot. And we wouldn't have her any other way. I thought town hall was a conservative website.
3 posted on 07/06/2003 5:40:23 AM PDT by speedy
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To: speedy
Yes Kathleen Parker is from the right and a conservative. And yes when she is in the rats paper here in New York, they always say and From the Right Kathleen Parker.

Townhall is a conservative web site.
4 posted on 07/06/2003 5:43:24 AM PDT by TLBSHOW (The Gift is to See the Truth)
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To: D. Miles
i read this twice and cannot figure out what the hell she is trying to say.
5 posted on 07/06/2003 5:48:59 AM PDT by corkoman (did someone say cheese?)
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To: TLBSHOW
Well she sure is cleverly disguised if she is from the right. First conservative I've seen sticking up for Maher's comments about how brave the terrorists are. I live in NYC too -- I'm not aware of anyone being forced to put up a flag. I didn't even see that many this year.
6 posted on 07/06/2003 5:50:55 AM PDT by speedy
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To: corkoman
In my opinion she is saying true patriotism comes from the heart and if forced or because the people on your street are doing it and so you do too is not true and from the heart, but faked. Just my thoughts.
7 posted on 07/06/2003 5:56:21 AM PDT by TLBSHOW (The Gift is to See the Truth)
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To: corkoman
Bewildered here,too!
8 posted on 07/06/2003 5:56:58 AM PDT by MEG33
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To: speedy
Kathleen Parker is extremely proud to be an idiot.

This article is all about dopey Kathleen and how she feels. Well woop-ti-do. Maybe it's cheaper for her than paying a shrink.

9 posted on 07/06/2003 6:03:52 AM PDT by dennisw (G-d is at war with Amalek for all generations)
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To: dennisw
Well, so long as it makes her feel better.
10 posted on 07/06/2003 6:07:46 AM PDT by speedy
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To: dennisw
I'm so glad she "shared" her "feelings" with us.
11 posted on 07/06/2003 6:11:29 AM PDT by AppyPappy (If You're Not A Part Of The Solution, There's Good Money To Be Made In Prolonging The Problem.)
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To: TLBSHOW
By some of the remarks here, I'd say I'm in big trouble patriotism-wise if my family back home isn't flying a flag that's big enough and if they aren't singing "God Bless America" every day.

And since I agree with the article, I'm probably not patriotic or conservative enough for some here as well.

12 posted on 07/06/2003 6:16:09 AM PDT by Eagle Eye (There ought to be a law against excessive legislation.)
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To: AppyPappy
"Share" as in "share your experience" is one of the phoniest words ever. I remember when it entered the vocabulary in the 1980's. It's just another psychobabble word. From the psychiatrist's couch it was loosed upon the general population. Phil Donahue type shows helped a lot.
13 posted on 07/06/2003 6:17:28 AM PDT by dennisw (G-d is at war with Amalek for all generations)
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To: Eagle Eye
Looks to me like she hit the bullseye with this story.


14 posted on 07/06/2003 6:26:08 AM PDT by TLBSHOW (The Gift is to See the Truth)
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To: Eagle Eye
You agree walking down a flag draped street makes you feel that way?A trifle paranoic,aren't we? We dug out the flag after 9/11 .It lost a part,we left it down,fixed it and put it out when war began.I never checked to see who had a flag out in the neighborhood!No one mentioned we didn't have one up when ours was down.
15 posted on 07/06/2003 6:29:29 AM PDT by MEG33
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To: MEG33
You agree walking down a flag draped street makes you feel that way?A trifle paranoic,aren't we?

Do I really need ot explain what "theme" is? I really hope not.

We dug out the flag after 9/11 .It lost a part,we left it down,fixed it and put it out when war began.

Some of us didn't need to, it was already a part of our life. I will admit that I sometimes flew mine upsidedown while clinton was in office and I left that thing up and in tatters until Bush was elected. I changed flags immediately after the ceremony.

I never checked to see who had a flag out in the neighborhood!No one mentioned we didn't have one up when ours was down.

That's good, because I hate the pseudo-patriotic flag nazi's like the author does.

IMO, flying the flag or reciting the pledge doesn't really mean a whole lot. Anyone can do that, no big deal.

Not everyone can serve in uniform, either, but patriotism mean doing something that takes some commitment.

16 posted on 07/06/2003 6:42:02 AM PDT by Eagle Eye (There ought to be a law against excessive legislation.)
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To: TLBSHOW
Some people's definition of patriotism is truly warped.

Take the "Patriot Act" for instance.

Soon we'll have the mandated Fatherland Respect Kit, complete with armbands and little red books if we keep going the way we are.

17 posted on 07/06/2003 6:45:11 AM PDT by Eagle Eye (There ought to be a law against excessive legislation.)
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To: Eagle Eye
You know why I believe so many of us who don't fly a flag daily scrambled through closets or made countless trips trying to find one to fly?It was an expression of all being in this together as Americans.It was community and committment and resolve.It was the least we could do.It didn't change a thing but it helped me express that which couldn't be expressed.
18 posted on 07/06/2003 6:54:03 AM PDT by MEG33
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To: MEG33
It was the least we could do

Exactly. You made my point better than I ever could.

19 posted on 07/06/2003 7:00:41 AM PDT by Eagle Eye (There ought to be a law against excessive legislation.)
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To: TLBSHOW
I've seen an increase in people expressing their patriotism since 9/11, but I've seen no evidence of anyone being forced or coerced to seem patriotic. I think that Kathleen Parker is a tad paranoid about this topic.
20 posted on 07/06/2003 7:08:16 AM PDT by alnick (Kakkate Koi!)
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