Thanks. Well, did anyone expect these to look like anything else? Did anyone design an experiment expecting these quanta to look like a teddy bear, or the letter P, or a trombone? I doubt the quanta would, even if the experiment were designed as such. ;-) That being the case, it seems that has been said, the observer isn't the issue, but that we have these really tiny, tiny little ongoing effects here that act like particles in some ways but aren't and oscillate in some manner, but have to do with more than mere, oscillating "raw" energy.
That may be an exercise in relationships/behavior/semantics more than in science, but is that not inappropriate, when faced with the attempt at understanding something beyond the context of our measurement-based logic?
(It's that time of day/night, again.)
Good night.
Up here at the macro level, common sense tells us that a thing is unique and it is in only one place at a time. But in the quantum world a thing is both a particle and a wave and it's in more than one place at once - at least until it is "observed."
The term "superposition" describes the condition where a range of states are true all at once in the quantum world. In Schrodinger's scenario, the cat status is a "superposition" - it is both alive and dead - but when you look, the cat is either alive or dead.
The example I drew earlier is even more extreme, where if you measure the particle's partners both here and on Jupiter at the same time - a paradox exists because the measurement itself instantaneously determines the partner as well. So both statements can't be true. This example was raised in one of Penrose's books.
IMHO, to understand the quantum world it is helpful to lay aside one's concept of physical "reality" --- the same approach is helpful in understanding space/time and higher dimensions.
Just my two cents...
Like most things in science, QM attempted to explain what was seen. While God's universe is too much for mere mortals to understand, we can still chip off the little chunks we can handle and create technology. I'm not giving my computer back.