[Paco]

Nope, you're so wrong. There is no marriage bandwagon for gays to jump on, that wagon has already come and gone. I know enough gays (males) to realize that the VAST, VAST majority of them are not at all interested in anything lasting. Legalized marriage? Do it for the notoriety? Uh, uh, no way.

I do agree however, that legalizing gay marriage is a step in the wrong direction, but firmly believe too, that if it occurred, it would totally backfire on the gay community because it would give them what they've fought for and yet, by and large, none of them actually want to make that type of commitment. So the ability to marry is virtually mitigated by desire.

[VRWC_minion]

it would totally backfire on the gay community because it would give them what they've fought for and yet

They are looking for acceptance. A same sex marriage will never be looked at the same as a male-femal marriage. As long as biology drives the women to have children and as long as they need to be dependent in the process and as long as mothers prefer to raise their own children then male-female marriage will always be held as more sacred than any other relationship.