We live in a time of capitalism. Why not make a compelete family a national treasure. Where you get a break cause of the structure of your marriage. If you divorce and remarry you dont get the full package but at a reduced effect.
Reason I say this is: I graduated college, never had sex with anything, turned down the loose women, and read a letter my dad wrote. He told me of a young lady moving from my home town to where I was living and reccomended me to get in contact with her. I have been married to her for 14 years with two sons.
NOTE for Washington DC send me a tax break that makes everyone want to be me. No more divorce crap. No more children of messed up parents.
A rule for any single guy is if you know of a wholesome girl its worth your time and patients to really commit yourself.