I'm happy you are most definitely a fighter, yourself.
What I'm saying is the woman is an adult. A responsible adult. She handled the car responsibly, and didn't go apolectic when the police car set its flashers on.
We trust adults. We let them fly things with afterburners solo. Armed things.
There's no magic to giving responsibility to adults, but when you do the results ARE magic.
The child isn't.
What's your opinion on abortion? Are your views on infancy close to Peter Singer's?