Croatia and Germany financed the bosnian Croat army, the US and Saudi Arabia financed the bosnian muslim army. Serbia financed the Bosnian Serb Army and the Croatian Serb Army. So what? Serbia should have annexed these territories during the early 90's instead of providing covered support to them. That's about the anything Slobodan Milosevic can be charged with.
An end to the specious defences of Milosevic and his actions - you've pretty much conceded the point on the command responsibility issue, DEI.
Perhaps we can move on to other things, like figuring out how to rebuild the Serbian economy and integrating it into Europe.
That would be nice for a change, and as there's no end of opportunities for rancorous disagreement when it comes to economics, we could maintain our usual relationship while arguing about how to construct a better future rather than apportioning blame for a disasterous past.