As I said, you, in two consecutive posts, negated any argument you might have made by your assumptions about how God was leading my husband and me, and your aberrant, bizarre jump to homosexual sin from my being an elder.
Even when I AGREE with you, Motherbear (like I did on that bikini thread, and on other issues), I find your condescension offensive, and decidedly lacking in Christian humility.
Most people on FR can disagree with respect for the other person. Until I see that in you, I will avoid discussions with you.
The irony is that I probably agree with you on 95% of what you believe, but you're too arrogant to see it.