[hellinahandcart]

No, the kind thing to do would have been to stop dating her early on.

He knew darned good and well he wasn't in love with her (hell, everyone knows long before six months have passed, if they're not utterly neurotic), and it was wrong to mess with her head and keep her off the market when he knew his feelings and hers did not match up, and never would.

[Pan_Yans Wife]

Excellent point. Everyone, male and female, should move on as soon as they know the person they are dating is not the person they want to marry. Life is too short to waste precious time like that.