[jimt]

Perhaps I have been lucky, or (forgive me) possibly more selective in my choices of partners, but I have never had this problem. I am fortunate enough to be on good terms with most of my ex-girlfriends. I acknowledge that this may not be true for others. However, unlike Mr. Celibacy in the article, I'm not telling everyone else that they should live the way that I live. All I can say is that it has worked for me.

No apology needed. I was pointing out my own stupidity - and lack of selectivity. I was thinking with the wrong head.

Mr. Celibacy is just pointing out what works for him and why he believes it's the best way. Countless people from many different points of view do so, so I'm not bothered by him doing it.

In fact, my own experiences lead me to believe he's right.

However, I'm glad things have worked out for you, and I think your reply regarding the unwanted pregnancy issue is a responsible one.

[Stone Mountain]

Mr. Celibacy is just pointing out what works for him and why he believes it's the best way. Countless people from many different points of view do so, so I'm not bothered by him doing it.

If that was all he is doing, I would be fine with him. But it isn't - he's telling me that I need to abstain and that sex shouldn't be a part of MY relationships. That's a little different than living a good life and letting people draw their own conclusions. You are correct that countless other people tell others exactly how they should live their lives - they piss me off too! : )