No passes made, no words of love, no promises for the future, and I'd start to wonder if maybe I'd found that rare man that doesn't want it AT ALL, even after marriage.That is a good point right there. God made sex fun for a purpose. It's one thing to choose not to have men running in and out of your house in front of the kids, but not to want it at all doesn't compute.
God only sanctions sex within the marriage.