[laredo44]

If you can't be honest enough to stay faithful in a serious relationship, not including marriage, you can't be trusted period.

Which is why Honesty and not Fidelity would be at the top of my requirements list for marriage, or a serious relationship of any kind. Without trust, there is no relationship, and without honesty there is no trust.

My top five list for marriage would be:

1. Honesty.
2. Love
3. Respect
4. Compatibility
5. Attraction

Would you displace one of those with fidelity?

[TheSpottedOwl]

Thanks for posting your list, it's a good one. If one has those qualities, he/she also will be faithful. It's all one ball of wax, so to speak.