Time that should be spent building a relationship being used to play often means when the 7th inning stretch comes one of the two has taken their ball and bat to look for a new field to play in
That way you never have to get to know the fine points of the game, or what the other player may have really been capable of
Not sure I can parse that.
Do you agree with my suggestion that there are many more important factors in the permutation of the events listed than whether (5) precedes (7)?
"I dated a very intelligent woman, an attorney, who was OK with celibacy," Washington said. "But after six months, she wanted me to make a commitment. She felt if she knew we were going to marry then she could abstain. I couldn't make that promise."The lady attorney was not abstaining. Also, there is no mention that they dated exclusively. So, Mr. Celibate was actually dating a woman who was also dating other men and sleeping with them and he knew about it. She was willing to commit to an exclusive relationship that was celibate until marriage but he simply wasn't interested in marrying her. (Maybe because she was whoring with other men already and he was looking for a woman with more integrity than a bimbo/lawyerette?)