[Qwerty]

"Some psychologist actually did a study. He found that they actually had been gay and actually have gone straight. He was surprised, he had started his research expecting to prove the opposite. He tried to get the APA to let him hold a discussion on the matter, but the gays shut it down because they don't want anyone knowing this dirty secret."

That sounds so good. But then again...

http://content.gay.com/channels/news/heads/010509_exgay_studies.html

If anyone wants to spend their time and money trying to become an "ex-gay", I wish them luck. I don't believe it's possible, nor even desirable in many cases.

[ArGee]

If anyone wants to spend their time and money trying to become an "ex-gay", I wish them luck. I don't believe it's possible, nor even desirable in many cases.

The ex-gays I know personally would disagree with you strongly.

But you need to believe that you are what you are and cannot change, mostly because you don't want to take responsibility for your behavior. So convince yourself they are lying.

It's safer than actually getting to know them.

Shalom.