[Jeff Gordon]

I, however, can prove it is in fact a choice by providing a single link.

Silly girl! Read the reviews. The book is about lesbians "coming out" not being created. You really should study your reference materials before citing them and showing your inner demons.

[Houmatt]

Silly girl!

I have been a guy all of my life. Just ask my wife.

The book is about lesbians "coming out" not being created.

And yet, it is called So You Want To Be A Lesbian. Want To Be implies choice. And if it was only about "coming out", it would been called, So You Want To Come Out As A Lesbian, or something similar.

Common sense can be your friend.

You really should study your reference materials before citing them and showing your inner demons.

Now just what exactly are you implying here?