I'm sorry. That's so terrible... and the worst part is that it's so common. I knew a lot of girls growing up who were molested and raped by older men.. more than I can count offhand. I've also known one woman who was raped by her babysitter (a teenage girl) when she was 10. I know two guys who were forced to perform oral sex on men when they were young.
People have to realize that the threat is everywhere, and that children need to be watched over constantly. If all you're looking for is a homosexual coming after your kids, then you might be missing the greater threat.
Thank you for sharing your stories.