Meaning both are acting irresponsibly.
You act as though men are just bags of hormones and have no ability to think of the consequences of their actions or have any self-control.
If this were all that made up a man, fathers would not be so important.
Not really. Men will typically follow the woman's lead in morality...nowhere in history can we find a society of easy women, making themselves sexually available like they do today, and the men have pushed them aside and not taken advantage of the situtation. It's just human nature, for whatever reason you want to assign it, women set the tone of the relationship. They do today with sexual freedom, and they did yesterday with sexual abstinance till marriage. Is there responsibility for the guys? Sure there is. But if we are looking for real answers, and not just silly arguments, the return of morality and principles has to occur before anything will ever change. When women change, men will follow. I don't think it's plausable that we will ever see an America where our females are running around making themselves sexually available to young men, and the young men are all saying "No.. go away from me". The young men will always chase after the sex relation, and it's up to the young women to say, "no, not until there is a ring on my finger". This not only makes the young woman more desirable and respected by the young man, it brings back the foundation of a strong, principled society. It worked before, and it can work to save our society again. It's called morals, remember them?