I'm not ----he choices should be before the conception ----she could choose to keep her legs together once in a while or use some form of birth control. If she can't afford kids, then her other choice would be to put them up for adoption so that there would be some chance of them learning responsibility and how to hold onto a job. How does a 26 year old with so many small children even find the time to be out man-hunting? She apparently has the time and money for "dating" but can't manage to work because then she needs to watch her children.