Cheating on ones wife - yes, I DO abhor that behavior. If cheating is okay with you, so be it! Overlook clinotn's behavior as well.
Don't get me wrong. I was quite critical of Rudy, especially after he had Judy Nathan come to live with him in Gracie Mansion while his wife and children were living there as well. I took a lot of heat for that criticism post 9-11.