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I don't see where anyone is obsessed with you. I read the Jane Russell thread, and found that you were kinda asking for the reaction you got. You weren't the victim. You kept insisting that you had no guilt for killing your baby. How did you expect people to react?

Maybe in your conscious mind you aren't feeling guilt, but I believe it is stuffed down in your subconscious somewhere so deep. This explains the defensiveness, or hardness that seems to be coming from you. It is a survival mode for many women. If they were to somehow believe that they had actually killed their precious baby it would be devastating. They would have to admit to the most horrible wrong that is imaginable. So to survive they have to have complete denial, but the guilt is really there inside. This can cause all kinds of other problems, including physical problems. I believe that could be one reason women who have had abortions have a much higher rate of breast cancer.

I did not write this to condemn you Hildy, even though I can tell you will probably take it that way. I can tell you that God can forgive you and completely heal you. All of us have sinned and come short of the glory of God. None of us deserve God’s grace, and forgiveness.Especially not me.

This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 1John 4.10

One of the reasons there is a higher rate of breast cancer in women who abort (whether naturally or induced) is because the tissue of the breast changes so much during preganancy. When an abortion occurs, the tissue has not gone through the entire process (which should naturally end in breastfeeding), and so there is tissue left in "limbo", which has a higher rate of turning cancerous.

The rate is quite high and should certianly be a factor when a woman is making the decision to have an abortion.