Posted on 05/29/2003 9:38:40 AM PDT by TaRaRaBoomDeAyGoreLostToday!
A note from Barbara Walters...
I am getting ready, drafting question after question, for a special program on June 8 with Sen. Hillary Clinton. I am excited that she chose me to do the very first interview in connection with her new book, Living History.
For the first time you will learn Mrs. Clinton's personal story, from the perspective that only she can offer from her private life to her public life, from a Happy Days existence in a Chicago suburb to her whirlwind ups and downs at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue.
You've heard much about Hillary Clinton, but precious little from her. This time, you will hear her own straightforward and unvarnished views. The program will air Sunday, June 8 at 7 p.m. on the East Coast, and after the NBA playoffs on the West Coast.
She will play victim and say "ya know, Barbara" all to start her run for the Presidency AND sell her garbage book.
That underlined bit is the dead giveaway this interview will be pure pablum.
BULLSH*T!!!
Bullshit!
I am looking forward to the live thread, however.
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Hillary Clinton maintains her husband was literally pulled apart in an emotional battle between his mother and grandmother, leading to his womanizing in later life. (ABCNEWS.com) |
By Claudine Chamberlain When social psychologist Debbie Then heard Hillary Clintons explanation of why her husband couldnt stay faithful to her, it sounded all too familiar.
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Thats because Then interviewed roughly 150 women for her book, Women Who Stay With Men Who Stray, and often heard them offering the same kinds of excuses for their own cheating husbands. She wants to explain it away, to show that its not something shes responsible for, Then says. I heard these same stories from so many of the women I talked to. They make excuses for their husbands behavior because they dont really want to leave them. Torn Between Two Women Mrs. Clintons comments that her husband was emotionally scarred as a child because his mother and grandmother battled each other for his affection came in an interview for the newly launched Talk magazine, which hit newsstands this week.
The first ladys spokeswoman, Marsha Berry, said Tuesday that the comments werent meant to excuse the presidents behavior, only to explain what he had to overcome from childhood. While Then isnt convinced, other psychologists say its a reasonable explanation for Bill Clintons wandering eye. Bill Clinton lived with his grandparents in Hope, Ark., for the first four years of his life so his widowed mother could attend nursing school. He moved out when his mom remarried. Family members say his grandmother made flash cards and taught young Bill to read by age 4. If the infidelity is repetition of a childhood pattern of trying to link with two women, that makes some sense, says Shirley Glass, a Maryland psychologist and marriage therapist. People do tend to repeat patterns of triangling that appeared in their childhood. Making Sense of the Situation It may sound like Hillary Clinton is making excuses, but its also possible that shes simply trying to come to terms with her pain at being betrayed. If something is traumatizing, the search for meaning makes it less traumatic, Glass says. So many betrayed spouses need to know the story behind the betrayal. And she has developed a story that makes sense to her and allows her to continue in the marriage. Clintons explanation also makes sense to Rita Justice, co-author of The Abusing Family, who goes so far as to label Bill Clinton a sex addict. In fact, she once counseled a client with the same kind of problem. He always had to have both a girlfriend and his wife. He cared very much for both of them, Justice explains, and couldnt bring himself to leave either one. He really needed two women wanting him, she says, and he always ended up with two women furious at him. Bill Avoids the Blame In that case, the man had grown up with parents who were constantly fighting with each other, and used their son as a weapon in that war. Sexual addiction does have its roots in poor parenting, says Justice. It has to do with childrens needs being met randomly or not being met at all. A power struggle between an unhappily married husband and wife could be similar to the mother and grandmother in Bill Clintons childhood, she adds: If there was a power play between Mom and Grandma, there was probably a real random reinforcement of what he could and couldnt do. They could have been indulging him or randomly punishing him, and that leads to a distorted sense of right and wrong. Dont tell that to Debbie Then. Weeping over Bill Clintons childhood only allows him to avoid the blame thats rightly his, she says. Everyone has some kind of emotional abuse or family dysfunction in their life, and its not necessarily a precursor to becoming an adulterer later on, asserts Then. Lets face it, when youre an adult you need to be responsible for your actions. Then, whos also skeptical that Hillary Clintons discussion of her husbands infidelity comes just as shes launching a bid for a Senate seat in New York, points out that Clinton was quick to praise her husbands upbringing in a promotional film that was produced for his presidential campaign. Of course, that was before the news about Clintons affair with Monica Lewinsky broke. And theres probably been a lot more analyzing of the presidents behavior since then. |
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