[Roxymoron]

Oh, so because I expect to be treated like a human being and not be automatically submissive to men, that means I have an "arrogant feminist attitude"? The kind of men that would be put off by that are the kind of men I wouldn't be interested in, frankly. And I have indeed had plenty of men express interest in me, the problem is that most of them were married and I don't do things like that; it's wrong and immoral, I don't care how unhappy they may claim to be, or how bad they claim their wife is. The truth is, they're probably unhappy because they expect their wives to meet all of their needs without being concerned about her needs as well. And I'm too exhausted as a single working parent to have much energy for dating, anyway.

[twigs]

Well put. And been there, done that. I dated very little when I was a single parent because I didn't think it was fair to my daughter. I'm now married to a wonderful man. He sometimes fantazies about a submissive wife, but I notice that he's been married to two (his first wife died) strong-willed women. He admits that he doesn't want a dependent type hanging onto him--he just likes to think about it! LOL. BTW, I found him on the internet. Not a bad way to find a spouse, if you're careful.