He seems to be all that; he is a counselor at the Y in our neighborhood and has been my cousin's childrens' counselor for the last five years. From what they say, he is exactly like he appears. And believe me, my cousin is just as mouthy as I am, so if there was something "there," he'd tell me......LOL.
Read this one; it's much better:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/915655/posts?page=1216#1216