Hey I just saw Clay on Fox & Friends this morning and what a GREAT person he is! - Clay is amazing with how he handles himself and his sense of humor is great! He is not shy and is a happy and cheerful person! - Clay is the real winner in my opinion and maybe him not winning top spot on American Idol may have been a blessing in disguise for him.
Who knows we might see him as part of the Fox & Friends crew in the future!
I just saw a few minutes of 'Dayside' with Linda Vester. Ruben and Clay were on. Whilst I had troubled decerning everything that Ruben said, Clay was quite articulate and funny.
I agree with your observations, not 'winning' may be best, lower expectations, less pressure, etc.